I'm gonna tell on myself. Right here, right now. Because beeetch, I'm tired of the "shit". I'm tired of me.

I've been in what I'd call "stuckness" energy, which is ironic, given the work I do with myself and my clients. It's not that I'm not fiercely grateful. It's not that I'm not present. I regret nothing, every choice these last three months was conscious and intentional. It's just... it's not lighting me on fire like it used to. I'm coasting. And I don't like it. It's not me. Life to me is romanticising the shit out of even the most boring mundane things.

And I'm really good at intellectualising it. Oh, but I'm choosing this. Redirection is protection. Okay, that didn't work out, here we go. I'm really good at that shit. But as I'm sitting here with my morning tea, I'm also like, Danya, you're just kind of sick of your shit. All of that can be true. And? Just admit you've been in a bit of a funk.

So this one is me outing myself, because I know you've been feeling something like it, and there's guilt and shame around it. How could I let this happen? I teach this shit. Nothing's wrong with you. Like, literally nothing. You're in a pivot. There's some recalibration happening.

In this one: why you're not exempt from the very thing you embody and teach, and the two examples I use to end that argument for good. The snow globe, the penguin, and the phase nobody warns you about, the one after everything settles. Why you don't get strong in the gym, and what that means for the quiet you're sitting in right now. And the results paradigm, in full: why strategy is the last thing that happens before a result, why it's only responsible for 10 to 15% of it, and what actually precedes the action you keep reaching for. I take you upstream one layer at a time, past the 95% your conscious mind never sees, all the way back to the thing that precedes your subconscious.

Plus: how fucking clean my house gets when I'm in fear, and what "productive" procrastination looks like on someone who's done all the work. Reading another book. Taking another fucking course. Learning another healing modality. Bitch, that's you procrastinating.

You are a unicorn. Your problems are not a unicorn. They're just wearing the fur coat instead of the bikini.

You just forgot. But now you've remembered. So what are you gonna do about it?

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