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The Structure That Holds

By: Irene Vans
Narrated by: Lana Adams
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Why do some people fall in love easily but can't seem to keep it? Why does one partner need constant reassurance while the other pulls away the moment things get real? Why do the same painful patterns keep showing up, relationship after relationship, no matter how much you swear this time will be different?

The answer isn't bad luck, and it isn't a character flaw. It's attachment — the invisible blueprint, formed before you could even speak, that quietly runs the show in every close relationship you'll ever have.

In The Structure That Holds, Irene Vans translates decades of groundbreaking attachment research into a clear, compassionate guide for anyone who has ever felt too much, too little, or too confused in love. Drawing on the work of John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, and the latest findings in neuroscience and couples therapy, Held maps the four attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized — and reveals exactly how each one shapes the way you fall in love, fight, communicate, and heal.

This isn't another book that tells you what's wrong with you. It's a field guide to the strategies your nervous system built to keep you safe — and a practical, evidence-based roadmap for building the secure, resilient love you actually want.
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