Kill The Nice Guy
Stop Trading Power for Approval (Practical Female Psychology collection)
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Kill The Nice Guy
Narrated by:
Steve Owens
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Narrated by:
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Steve Owens
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By:
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Joseph W. South
The nice guy smiles, nods, flatters and quietly hopes. Under every favor, every yes and every apology runs a covert contract: if I give enough, maybe you'll choose me. She senses the price tag before you've said a word, and it repels her. That's not generosity. It's a trade, and you're paying for it with your power. The answer isn't to become a jerk. It's to become real.
Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man explains how women think. This book is about the man she's looking at. I wrote it for the men who did everything they were told and still lost her: the friend who became her "male girlfriend," the man who can't stop thinking about one woman, the husband who asks for sex like a favor. The second half follows one of them. Chuck, a listener from Boston, wrote to me about his marriage, and his email became nine chapters.
Inside, you'll learn how to:
- Say what you want. Assertiveness isn't loudness or arrogance. It's stating your needs without apology, and walking away when you have to.
- Kill your Oneitis. It isn't love. It's obsession. Three chapters on how it takes hold, how to go cold turkey, and how to end it for good.
- Get out of the friend zone. Why the "male girlfriend" never becomes the lover, and how to set the frame from the start.
- Unlearn the love songs. How music and media train men to beg, pine and put her on a pedestal.
- Fix a sexless marriage. Why the husband who treats sex as a favor gets less of it, and how to stay faithful as a man with options.
- Face the hard truths. The Madonna-Whore split, the gap between male and female desire, and the other man.
- Own fatherhood. Not as a sacrifice, but as power.
You didn't write the contract. It was handed to you. Tearing it up is the whole book.
You're not here to become a better boyfriend. You're here to become a better man.©2025 Joseph W. South (P)2026 Joseph W. South
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