In looking at identity it is overwhelming to know who you are when others are telling you who you are not. The ability to articulate your own understanding of who you are is liberating and undoubtedly scary at the same time. As women begin the process of self-identification, there is a sense of fear that says, “Are you ready to go against the grain?” Beloved, this book you hold in your hands is designed with you in mind. You were created to make the not good, good. How you define and defend your personhood is up to you. This book you hold in your hands, is designed to open your heart, transform your mind, and usher your service to God through honoring, respecting, and loving your husband.

This book is laid out in three parts: Unlock My Heart, Unlock My Mind, and Unlock My Spirit. Part One addresses the theological perspective of woman’s creation. It shares the misinterpretation and misrepresentation of woman’s creation. Part two talks about dismantling, debunking, and defusing the lies women have been acculturated and socialized to internalize and live with. Part three is where you will find the nine keys to being a GOOD wife. With the proper understanding of who God created you to be as a woman, your love for God, your husband, and yourself becomes life giving.