In this deeply insightful episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula unpack two powerful — and often misunderstood — relationship dynamics: codependency and counterdependency. Though they seem like opposites, both are rooted in the same place — fear, unmet attachment needs, and a longing for safety and connection.

In this episode, the hosts explore:

• Where codependent and counterdependent patterns come from.

• How they show up in everyday relationships — from family to friendships to romance.

• What happens when these two dynamics collide (spoiler: it’s common and messy).

• How to begin healing and move toward healthy interdependence.

You’ll learn how awareness, boundaries, self-compassion, and vulnerability pave the way for genuine connection — without losing yourself in the process.

Whether you recognize yourself as someone who clings or someone who pulls away, this episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about understanding. It’s about learning new ways to relate that feel secure, balanced, and authentic.

Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

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Resources for this episode and topic:

• Mental Health America
• Co‑Dependents Anonymous (CoDA)
• “What Is Codependency? 20 Signs & Symptoms” PositivePsychology.com
• Free worksheets and tools Universal Coach Institute
• Codependency Library Live Well with Sharon Martin